Makeshift Lives...

Makeshift Lives...

~Echoes of a Home~

The ugliest words in the human language are Homeless and being homeless.

 What comes to mind when the word Homeless is mentioned, in any regard? You 
immediately get an image of what you believe homeless looks like... which is 
the commercialized version, not the reality version... but have you given any 
thought to what it actually feels like, to be homeless? The stigma that automatically 
comes with the title and label... the mis-perceptions, gross judgments and 
assumptions that hold no truth. If you don't look like a walking 
trash bin and smell like a sewer, then you can't be homeless.

The stereotypes cast into roles that have never fit, trying out for a part we 
were not properly cast in. Living on the streets is challenging enough without the 
added labels and stigma attached to it, immediately cast our way even before they 
actually see us, actually set their eyes on us -- cast into roles that have never ‘fit’, 
but condemned by hear-say, not by the evidence of Truth. 
Too blind to see and too deaf to hear---

I didn’t choose to be put out here, yet I’m always being prosecuted for the 
actions of others-- it’s this response toward me that turns me ‘off’ to life-- Forcing 
myself to remember to breathe and remembering why I should bother to keep going. 
I often wonder what it is that keeps me pushing, fighting and holding on (to what..??).

Transitional Living....

When you live your life, or merely an existence of a semblance of

what once was a life, on the streets,

your life becomes mobile in the truest sense.

Everyplace and any place,

using the resources around you for your temporary housing,

becomes your residence, at least for a few minutes, perhaps a couple

days, weeks at most, before you are forced to another

destination, but not one that takes you

any place.

Carrying your 'home' with you at every moment.

And the cycle repeats. Everyday.

You become an expert at packing, as this is a daily ritual.

Camping becomes your new sport.

Walking becomes your main form of transit, no matter if your body is able

to carry you or not, you are not given the choice or the

luxury of just being for a time, allowing some healing to unfold through 
your body. Putting more miles on your feet than most people do their cars. 
People would be surprised the mileage we put on our feet when your

home is the great outdoors, they wouldn't believe the

information listed on a pedometer if we had them attached to us.

They would insist they we had somehow rigged it, as the numbers showing

could not possibly be true. Follow us then. But then anyone following us

would fall to the wayside, they could not keep up.

Beginning my mornings by meditating before the chaos of the day unfolds.

It helps prepare my mind and heart for the day to come.

My companions of the night, furry and feathered, are the most

treasured friends I have and give me reason to breathe in, and out, and try to

remember to repeat the cycle.

Life in Transit...

Not given the chance to make a home, but we have many residences.

Never knowing where you might find your self at any point of the day or night.

What city or town you will be in, not usually by choice.

How long will you be given the chance to breathe, before you are forced to move?

 How long before some home residing person calls the cops

on us just for being present?

And taking advantage of whatever resources are at your disposal at any 
given moment... a sink, I'll pull out my shampoo or toothpaste out and

get down to business. Learning to clean up in the quickest time and measuring the

time allotted, for what you will do. If I have 3-5 minutes, I can wash my hair and 
brush my teeth at the same sink, before heading out and moving on. Always having 
what I need with me, since I never know when the opportunity will 
present itself. Stayed prepared.

By Renee Bowen

Homeless since Sept. 1, 2000

© 11/2011

Cardboard Dreams...

 

 

~ Under Construction~

The Building of Cardboard Homes

Cardboard Dreams...

Cardboard Lives: Constructing Indomitable Spirits

Ever wonder how it comes about the abundant homes that are made 

out of cardboard....

The Building of Cardboard Homes (Our Lives)-- makeshift lives, 

living on the streets. Days flow into weeks, which turn into months and 

transform into years.... time no longer holds any meaning when you are 

on the streets. Days blend and blur, becoming one long day.

 

Have you ever wondered where and how people began living in 

Cardboard homes?? Or did you just make a snap judgment about it, claiming 

they are 'junkies, alcoholics, low-life's...Just lazy and so forth? Most people, 

contrary to popular belief, did not choose to be homeless and most are not out 

here due to chemical dependency, otherwise the streets would be overflowing 
with Doctors prescribing their own addictions. Homeless living is 

highly stressful, soul-grinding existence... lazy need not apply!! 

As this is not for the weak or feint of heart.

You ever wonder about the lives inside-- beyond the cardboard?? 

Do you ever see the person before you, or do you automatically 

discard us as mere trash along the way? Perhaps pass 
judgment for something you know nothing about, assuming you know 

exactly "why” we are out here.--Living takes on a whole other meaning 

when you are looking up to the heavens when you awaken... peering through 

the holes, the spaces from where the cardboard that you have placed 

around you shifts with your every move. The soft folds of night that 

held everything in shadow as it slips and fades from the first shafts of 

morning light begins to take over. Peeling and picking the residue and 

layers of Mother nature off that has settled through the night, 
the sediments from the night that leave and has left their marks... 

insects, rocks, grassy bits, twigs and leaves, among the masses..... 

before moving into your day. All these things in various stages of 

embedment through your body, and found in the oddest of places.

You learn the true meaning of isolation and being non-existent when you are 

forced to live your life on the streets, even when surrounded by people, 

you find you’re not welcome and made to feel like you have never mattered… 

People pretending to be your friend, then turn their backs on you, making it 

crystal clear your presence isn’t there… you simply cease to exist, in their eyes-- 

in their consciousness. Without ever telling you what happened. Butchering 

your heart in the process because you cared, loved and trusted them with your 

heart and felt it in your entire being. People forget you are a real person--- 

a living, breathing, feeling being just like them. But they do not 
treat you as a person, rather something to be discarded and avoided like a 

toxic substance they “need” to steer clear of. It doesn't diminish the pain and deep 

sadness left in its wake, that permeates your heart and touches the core of your being.

And when you are on the streets, people insist you have so many places to go, so 

much shelter and so many places to get out of the rain and so forth, and they 

refuse to believe otherwise. When you are on foot, have little or no access to bus service, 

which is all but non-existent on the weekends-- you’re left out in the cold in the truest sense. 

Your choices are extremely limited. If the library is open, you can go in there for a 

brief time, then when they close, you’re left out again, and trying to find 
another place out of the brutal weather becomes more challenging. Finding some 

place where no purchases are required in order to sit in there for any length of time, 

such as Kinko’s or Safeway-- and they are not always an option, not when 

you are no where near them. But people insist, “oh, Renee, you have to 

have some place you go-- I know you are not 
outside 24/7-- OK, come out with me then.

Falling through the cracks…

Slipped trough and fallen through and into all the crevices and cracks of 

this screwed up “system”, the chasms deepening and widening with each endless 

attempt trying to receive what I am fully  entitled to, yet refused and denied 

with increasing cruelty and the nightmarish hell the system drags you through… 

when you are physically challenged, female and homeless… literally forced 
to live on the brutal streets, no income-- you are slammed head first repeatedly into 

the walls, then dragged over hot coals. Your health, your very life compromised, 

discarded, dismissed as the hours roll into days, flowing into weeks, changing 

into months, turning into years, morphing together where time has become 

suspended, no longer holding or holds any meaning. 

 
Your life… a void in the chasm.

When you are not chemically dependent, don’t have a habit to ‘support’, 

a convict or a felon, or an illegal immigrant, you are denied your very existence. 

The very ‘rights’ we’re supposed to be guaranteed, food, clothing, shelter… 

readily dismissed. And the battle begins. Refused housing because there is no income, 

denied sustenance because you don’t have a “physical” residence. The catch-22 that 

loops continuously, the cycle that has no end. When you are a single individual, female, 

and clean-- there is no category for you--- ‘well, you don’t drink, you don’t smoke, 
you don’t do drugs… you look too clean, so you cannot possibly need assistance. 

You don’t “look the part, or smell the part… don’t look like you are homeless, so 

obviously you don’t need help. We only help people who ‘do’. Even the so-called ‘programs’ 

are only designed for chemical dependents, families with dependent children and seniors. 

Fallen through the crack, time and again.

Renee Bowen

Homeless since Sept. 1, 2000

© 2011

Thanksgiving Day...

Thanksgiving...   takes on a whole new meaning when your life is lived on the streets.  This marks my 12th winter and Holiday season on the streets, as my 11 th year anniversary of being put out here by and through the illegal actions of a landlord just passed on Sept. 1, 2011.  This day has held many blessings, which I am trying to focus on, But it held even more of the ugliness cast my way, firing off like a machine gun aimed directly through my heart, which cannot be dispelled completely, but rather a good portion manages to become absorbed in the deepest pores of your being, no matter how much you try to deflect it.  Wondering how many people actually are aware of each breath they take or something else they give such disregard to, like those of us having to face each and every day when you live on the streets.  Having to remind my Self to breathe, in and out, and repeat...   fully aware of each breath I take, sometimes forgetting to let it out.  It wears on you, more than I could ever convey, living, breathing and feeling every nuance of the streets, and everything it entails... which would be much easier to contend with, if we didn't have to contend with the endless ignorance of those two-legged creatures that make our life a living hell.  Forgetting the fact we are people just like them, feel actually more than they do, continue to breathe, in and out.  That there is actually a person on the receiving end of their ugliness.  Letting assumptions run their lives, and all but ruin ours...

Donated Lives... Donation Living

 Donated Lives:

~ Donation Living ~

(For) most of us, we never give much thought to donations, what is donated, 

where donations go-- until you find yourself on the receiving end and in need of

donations to exist when you are forced into a different existence where 

donations become your very livelihood, something you must rely

on for just about everything when your roof expands and opens up to

become the skies above and your walls fold out into Nature's

Embrace, as you are surrounded by Her Beautiful Creatures--

Donations become an absolute necessity, but parceled out

in unequal, uneven and unfair amounts.
Some church's idea of a "Hygiene Bag" consists of only a baggie of 
condoms and a toothbrush.  When I have received these, it goes right into 
the trash, I have no use for such junk, I need things I can use, like soap, 
and shampoo, clothes... 

Some places requiring a "referral" from some State or County

"Agency", or Church, in order to get even a single article of needed clothing, 

food, or transportation assistance for the bus.

Some places only allowing for an exchange for one item needed, for something 

you are wearing and need.  Claiming they could not just let people 

come in and take whatever they want.  That in order to get something 

you need, you need to give something you are using and need to "balance" 

it out for everyone.  

Makes perfect sense, doesn't it??

Clothing and toiletries are the most needed, yet hardest to come by 

necessities and rarely are you able to actually find something that really works, 

fits and is useful.People donate anything and everything with little or 
no thought or regard to about what they are donating.

Most only caring about the write-off they will get 

in exchange for "donating" the items they have.

--Life takes on a whole different meaning and texture when you have to rely

fully on donations for your barest essentials...  especially, when you are female.

At times, I have had to play Musical Hotels/Inns/Motels in order to get 

some much needed items to clean up, at least in some regard.

Only on occasion, when absolutely necessary, will I go into some place 

and present myself as though I know what I am doing and where I am going, 

Looking like I am staying in the place, head up to a different floor, wait a bit, 
then head back to the desk, once I have dropped my bags off before 
coming back down, then asking for some toiletries that were not placed 
in my "room".  Rarely have I been asked what room I am in.  But when the 
occasion has arisen to being asked, I just give a random number, 
hoping they actually have that room number.

Sometimes, I get real lucky and come at a time when housekeeping are

making their rounds.  And I'll go to their carts and ask for some supplies.

Always giving me a good, large handful.  Most people never bother using 
these items, they may collect them as "souvenirs", but rarely, if ever, 
actually use or need these items. But when your home is in the outdoor 
arena, these items are treasures to covet.

They are easy to keep in your pockets, take up little space and can

be placed in pockets all over the place.  So you can always have access to

something.  The only bad things about these items are their 

packaging.  More than once the little bottles of lotion, shampoos or soaps 

break or turn upside down, and the caps somehow twist off, causing a bit 

of a mess.  It becomes quite obvious when you start seeing bubbles come out in 

different areas of your bags when it rains.  Not realizing until then what happened.

That's always fun.  Self-cleaning bags. But it is par of the course and 
one of the many hazards of being out here.

Renee Bowen

Homeless since Sept. 1, 2000

Copyright 2011

Illegal Eviction began my life on the Streets

A Different Life – Another Existence

~ Eviction is where it all began... ~

Where does one start when ones life is ripped apart and forced into a living nightmarish hell…

The news came late that night, well past midnight on the night of August 28, 2000 – It was slipped under the door. Faintly recall hearing the scrape of paper brushing the floor as the envelope was shoved under the space between the door and the floor as I made my way to the bathroom, then back to bed for a few hours of much needed rest.

Noticing the envelope the following morning on the floor of my unit several inches past the door where it had been shoved the night before – the sounds of scraping paper resounding in my head and I couldn’t shake the uneasy feeling growing inside as I saw that envelope on my floor, the mere sight of it filling my heart with dread.

Bending slowly, I picked the envelope up from its current location and turning the envelope over, only my name, first and last name, was printed on it, nothing more. The envelope flap had been tucked under, not sealed.

Lifting the flap, I pulled out a thick-fold of papers that were enclosed, my hands trembling from nervous anticipation (or dreaded anticipation) as I unfolded the thick document inside. A legal document for an eviction suit listing me as the defendant, or rather the ‘evictee’-- I was being sued for eviction by the illegal actions of the landlord managing the property, very poorly managed, at that. Informing me that I had 3 days to be cleared out of my unit, that my unit had been rented out and I was to be out as of September 1^st, 2000.

And so begins my journey into the nightmarish living hell that has become my life, my very existence. Where does one start when one’s life is shattered, shredded, turned upside down and thrust into circumstances not of your choosing-- being given a life-sentence, the very moment those precious walls and solid roof are taken so abruptly and forcefully from your life.

---All starting September 1^st, 2000 when I was forced into circumstances that were not of my choosing, yet I’m the one living and breathing the sentence given to me by the illegal actions of a landlord-- literally putting me on the cold, hard streets because of his illegal activities that I would not permit to continue taking place at my expense. Happening in the city of Alameda, where the landlords are given full reign to do whatever they want, whenever they want, however they choose and tenants have absolutely NO say in the matter, whatsoever, regardless of the illegal crap the landlord does, they are given the reins to dismantle someone’s life in whatever capacity they choose to do so.

Employed then at Virgin Entertainment Group in San Francisco at the time, making nothing; working close to 90hrs a week just to make ends even remotely meet. Whenever I was gone for more than a few minutes, I would come back and find things missing, even more so when I had to go out of town. I started making a fuss about different items disappearing while I was gone, and my rent gets raised, and only my rent-- no one else’s. When I changed my locks, I was forced to give the Landlord a key, as he filed a complaint against me telling the authorities that he ‘Could not access my unit, and was required to have a key to all units to get in for “repairs and emergencies”, so I was forced to comply, regardless of the fact I was never once notified when he entered my unit for anything, which he was required by law to do. This was all brushed off when I started making complaints, which only fell on deaf ears, because after all, I was merely a tenant, nothing more. As more and more started disappearing, I made more of a fuss, resulting only in my rent being raised. I went to the Housing Authority, who offered no assistance. Then went to the rent board, and was in for a shock, as they told me “There Was NO ‘rent control’ in the city of Alameda”, that the landlord was free to raise the rent at any point to whatever amount they chose.

When continually raising my rent didn’t get me out, the landlord decided to Sue me for Eviction-- Regardless of the fact I had never been late on my rent, and usually paid it early, the Landlord rented out my unit, site unseen, while I was still living there paying rent. Since the law in Alameda is fully on the landlord’s side, tenants only viewed as disposable commodities, he was able to Sue me for Eviction, and won. All legal assistance I tried to obtain resulted in the repeated response ‘I have no legal recourse’.

When I first moved there, Dean Hague, the landlord managing the property, the owners giving him the reins to the building, so he got away with anything and everything. He told anyone and everyone that HE was the owner. He initially proposed a 'deal' with me, telling me in “exchange for services”, he would lower my rent. I flat out refused, which didn't sit well with him at all. Things really started falling into place then, seeing him come out of many of the women's units looking like the Cheshire cat. So that is what was happening. And because of my refusal, he did whatever he could to remove me from the building, in whatever way he could, none of which was legal.

And so begins my journey into the hell that has become my very life, my only existence, the draining reality of being and living on the streets. Relying heavily on my writing to help me make it through each passing day, and endless night; animals becoming my solace, my confidants, my closest friends, giving me the strength to face another day, nurturing my heart, my soul. And the treasure of blessings from the incredible bus drivers I have been blessed with having in my life, who have given me the gift of HOPE through the shadows of despair...

By Renee Bowen

Homeless Since Sept. 1, 2000

© 2006, 2007, 2008 All Rights Reserved

Absorbing The Ink...

~ Absorbing the Ink~

Under the Ink… Newsprint Lives

For some of us, the news becomes a way of life… not so much for

the news and stories held within its pages, but rather a blanket wrapped

around us, and as padding laid over the hard ground, as we try to stave

off the chilly night air that descends like a waterfall for those of us facing

life on the streets-- living, breathing and feeling every nuance of Mother Nature.

Absorbing the news, in the deepest sense. Substituting the warmth produced

by trees in place of the human connections were so readily deprived of.

And in the process, learning more about the world around us, as well as

around the world. Reading the news that covers our lives, while it darkens

our skin and the sheets provide cover from the elements...

until it gets really wet and the papers stick to us and then disintegrates

all over us, drying to you like it had been adhered with by glue.

Sometimes hiding things wrapped in newspaper as to give the

impression we carry nothing of value, or allow for a brief time

to store something where no one will think twice about it.

People see trash everywhere, most don't bother to clear it up,

but pass the buck to others... having someone else clean their messes.

And for those of us on the streets sometimes rely on this as a means

to keeps things safe from being taken or thrown away.

People are often amazed that we are well versed in many topics and

enjoy the stimulation that communication brings… welcoming the

chance to connect with someone, however briefly that may be.

More often than not, we are regarded through the lens of

indifference, hate and ugliness from all directions. So much so,

that this is what overshadows love….

You feel as though huge parts inside you begin to

corrode and disintegrate from the harsh words and

remarks so cruelly tossed our way…

Cardboard Lives….

You'll find us everywhere, but we seem to become invisible to others

unless it is just to direct their brutality to... under bridges, on park

benches, in doorways... trying to just be without being.

Our belongings, our very existence.... seen as nothing more than debris

that needs to be cleared away. People believing that we could not possibly

have anything that means something, nothing with heart value... after all, 
your life is disposable, so nothing you carry with you should have 
any meaning, perhaps this is why we are stripped of the very 
threads holding our lives together, as they try to destroy those 
very threads of our lives. It means nothing to them to

strip us so bare of the barest essentials.... it only matters 
if you have that luxurious roof over your head.

Finding shelter, food, restroom facilities, clothing.. the barest, most basic

essentials a person needs becomes an ever-increasing challenge to 

find (and use) when you are forced out on the streets. Breathing, 

warm water, hot fresh meals are things most of us take for granted, 

until those very things are taken from you and then they become 

out of reach, but deeply sought after, luxuries. Your existence 

dismissed as you find your presence is no longer accepted, 

much less welcome in society, readily cast to the wayside while 

people have been scripted, either consciously or unconsciously, 

to go out of their way to make our lives an ever-greater hell.

Relying on Mother Nature for the basic necessities of life...

turning to her beautiful creatures for love, comfort and the warmth to

soothe and heal your heart, body, mind, and soul....Finding Nature at once both

accepting and rejecting, sometimes stripping your soul completely bare,

other times embracing you and lifting you higher than you thought possible.

The songs of Her Chorus... filling your heart, the beauty, the calm and peace

that surrounds you and fills your senses that the crisp air of the mornings bring,

the colors exploding all around you.... Letting Her become fully absorbed

in your bones and reaching the deepest levels of your soul.

Watching and learning from the Masters in Nature on how to survive,

 opening  your heart more, your senses come alive at Nature's touch.

By Renee Bowen

Homeless since Sept. 1, 2000

© 2011